It's a head-scratcher. Having sex put men to sleep but wakes women up. So while you're craving a little post-coital closeness with your man, he's zoned out in front of reruns of cricket matches or catching some size's Why? Unfortunately, the cocktail of sex hormones released after both women and men climax can have the opposite effect on our post-sex wish list. Here are some after play pleasers that I have seen at Online Dating Guide/Expert will satisfy you both. Pay Him a Compliment
Guy could die to her something good about their sizzling sex skills. When you mention the mattress moves that drove you wild, it strokes his ego and makes him feel virile. Men can feel anxious about their performance, so they really want to hear it from you that you had a good time in bed. Your flattering feedback will keep him from dozinghe's definitely gonna stay awake for this performance assessment and kick-start light conversation, which you may be in the mood for right about now. Give Me Massage
Just because the sex is over doesn't mean it's hands-off. Massage is a great way to maintain that physical connection for you, while prolonging his bliss buzz.
You need to unlock the erogenous zones that will keep your guy in a state of ongoing pleasure, not pain. For a more relaxing and sensual session, position yourself so that you're lying on your side, facing him. Take a Shower
It's a no-brainer. Any situation that has you hot, wet, nude and invading his personal space is bound to overpower his post-coital crash response. Start by taking turns slowly scrubbing under the shower stream. If all this post-coital closeness inspires something frisky to unfold between you and him, go there. But ultimately, being so together after being so intimate is often enough of a rush. Touch Yourself
If the first romp has left you yearning for a repeat performancebut he's totally wiped outturn your attention to yourself for some self-stimulation and leave the invitation open for him to take over.
Guys need time to recover before they can go again, and this is only made more difficult if they feel pressured. So let him know you had an amazing time and you just want him to be there while you make the most of how aroused you feel. Whether he joins in or not, guy love to watch, so it's a win-win situation. Snuggle Up
The ultimate compromise between his and her post-coital cravings is the snuggle up. Being held after sex feels so good for you, while he gets to kick back and indulge his snooze reflex. And the good news is, it's somewhat of a mattress myth that men are turned off by a little after-sex cuddling. There is an assumption that men are more emotionally detached from intercourse than women are. But a lot of them do want to feel that closeness too.
You can also let him settle into a comfortable snoozing position and then warp his arm around you and enjoy the feeling. |
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